If you are a mother who is facing a family court case in the UK without a lawyer, you may feel overwhelmed and anxious about what to expect. However, there are some useful resources and tips that can help you prepare and represent yourself as well as possible.
Get In the Know
First of all, you should familiarise yourself with the court process and the legal terms that will be used. You can find some helpful guides on GOV.UK ,Advicenow and Voice of the Child. These guides explain what you need to do before, during and after your court hearing, how to fill in forms and write statements, how to deal with evidence and witnesses, and how to communicate with the judge and other professionals.
Get Organised
Secondly, you should organise your paperwork and make sure you have all the relevant documents that support your case. You should also make copies of everything and keep them in a folder or binder that is easy to access. You should bring this folder with you to every court hearing and appointment.
Get Ready
Thirdly, you should practice how to present your case clearly and calmly. You should focus on the facts and the best interests of your child, not on your emotions or personal opinions. Avoid interrupting, arguing or being rude to anyone in court. Also, be prepared to answer questions from the judge or the other party, and to ask questions yourself if you need clarification or more information.
Get Support in Court
Finally, you should consider whether you can have someone with you in court to support you. This person is called a McKenzie friend and they can help you by taking notes, giving advice and providing moral support. However, they cannot speak for you or interfere with the proceedings. The judge will decide whether you can have a McKenzie friend with you in court. You can read more about what a McKenzie friend can and cannot do on the GOV.UK website. Read McKenzie Friend – giving a helping hand or just a bad plan? for further insights.
Be Brave
Representing yourself in family court is not easy, but it is possible if you do some research, plan ahead and stay focused. You can also get legal advice if you need it, even if you cannot afford a solicitor. You can find a solicitor or a legal adviser on the Law Society website or check if you are eligible for legal aid on the GOV.UK website.
